One time I was chatting at the club about my trip to see JAG and someone said: “So it is ok to have JAG as a friend in RL but not OK on SL?!” to which I simply replied to mind their own business as they have no idea of what is going on between JAG & I.  Only a very few selected people knew about JAG and I andit was quite upsetting that people would just judge me.  They had no idea and it was none of their business and they should respect that.  It was another RL story that one day I will cover on my RL personal blog, maybe then people will understand.

But I did unban him when I came back from the States and we became friend again on SL.

Since JAG had joined SL, I lost count of the time he said he would never go back to SL… and this day was no different. For whatever reason, something pissed him off and he decided once again he would not go on SL!  Pffft…

SL is a world full of dramas so for that reason I am not naming anyone else… but the next day JAG had something to tell me and when JAG has something to tell me it is not usually good… “It’s been killing me not to tell you, so I am telling you now. I decided not to go on SL because of what XYZ said. I thought she was a friend but obviously expected more from me and that pisses me off because I am always honest with people when I first met them as I dont want to partner with anyone.  But I decided I would partner you and had bought everything, the tux, the rings, the AO… everything…”

I was quite surprised.  First by the so-called friend.  I had suspected quite some while back she had a bit of a crush for JAG but what bothered me was the fact she knew how felt for JAG RL/SL….

Then what got me: what has it got to do with me?  Why quit SL just because of one person and not partner me??

But with JAG, it is best not to try to understand his thinking and actions… or you will get some severe headaches…

Until yesterday, he was out in RL and asking to come and pick him up as he was to drunk to drive back home lol.  Then he asked:

“Will you marry me on SL? I will only come back to SL if you marry me…” and added -”just an SL marriage so dont kid yourself”.  Funny man lol

I was not expecting this comeback!  But I did not make much of it until I recieved the email today:

Dear Prisqua Newall, You have received a Second Life partner proposal from JAG Tremor.

Did not think twice about this one….

I was on Skype talking to JAG:

“What are you doing?” he asked.

“Nothing much…” I replied.

“You are on Second Life again? That’s it!! I am joining!!!” he said.

My RL love interest had decided to join Second Life.  At first I thought he was joking because he had said so many times that he would never ever joined Second Life and many had tried to get him on SL but he just was not into it at all. Until today….

So I took him shopping for a skin, shape and some clothes and the JAG Tremor was born

He moved in to the house too of course and became like my shadow…. but loved it

We had so much fun trying to create her look, looking for her skin and shape and some clothes.  We also became business partners with the club and IBBC was re-born and it was much more fun to do it with Saki. I was looking after the technicalities of the club and she was looking at the social part of the club.  Everybody loves Saki Kimono.

I really wanted to own a shop but I am not a creator and don’t want to be… and as i was looking around I found this club for sale.  I absolutely loved the place and decide to buy it.  And with it came the learning… owning a business like in real life is not easy and can be expensive…

So you own a club and you have to hire djs that you have to pay. The djs get paid and also get tips. As a club owner you are hoping to also get tips which never quite make it to cover the cost of the djs.  You have to make sure the club has other income revenues but mainly clubs do not generate big profits.  The price of hiring a djs defers and some are very expensive.

It is also lots of work as you have to be there most of the time and if you don’t you can hire a host but then it is an extra expense which you have to make up for and usually host take tips too… so in the end the club rarely get any tips which makes it hard if you don’t have the financial to support the club.

I had just started and was ready to give up.